“Please give me advice to get over this toxic love”

Tuesday, 10. November 2009

Hi Nathalie,
I was in an inter-racial relationship with a girl for one year. From the beginning she was not trustworthy, but at the time I was so lonely that I deeply fell in love. I became addicted to her. I was struggling with my job. As she knew this, she left me. Read more �

Banishing unwelcome thoughts

Tuesday, 10. November 2009

“That’s the secret to life… replace one worry with another…” Charles M. Schulz, Charlie Brown

Sitting here thinking about where to start this particular blog, I am taken back to a time a few years ago after my boyfriend ended our relationship. That in itself sounds bad enough, but coupled with the fact that he didn’t even tell me we were done, he just stopped calling…plus, i found out that he already had another girlfriend…Oh man, were my thoughts in overdrive.

There were a million questions darting around in my head, I played out imaginary conversations with him where I told him off, and sometimes I would replay romantic moments between us, but the worse torture I put myself through was the mental images I conjured up of the intimate moments he must be sharing with his new girlfriend. Does this sound familiar? Read more �

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