Tuesday, 10. November 2009
Hi Nathalie,
I was in an inter-racial relationship with a girl for one year. From the beginning she was not trustworthy, but at the time I was so lonely that I deeply fell in love. I became addicted to her. I was struggling with my job. As she knew this, she left me. Read more �
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Monday, 9. November 2009
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you’ve imagined. Henry David Thoreau
You’ve heard of the ‘unsent letter’, right? You know, the one where you tell your ex off, or write down all of your feelings about how they treated you, so you can get it off your chest and finally have that elusive thing we call closure? If you have written an unsent letter, did you actually get the closure you were searching for? Not fully, right?
When you write this type of letter, you are reviewing and reliving the past; so in fact, you’re dredging up the hurt and pain all over again. Writing the letter is great for getting those negative thoughts out of your head and down on paper, because it’s actually one of the first small steps towards moving past the pain. Read more �
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